Find strength and purpose in your singleness as you deepen your faith

all for $7 a month!

Stop using modern dating & self-awareness tactics! Instead…



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You are tired of…


Feeling stuck in your singleness...


Feeling anxious when stepping out into the dating scene...


Not knowing how to just be "OK" with where God has you...


Feeling lost when it comes to your faith journey and love life...

Now you’re looking for a better way to build up your faith while also trusting God during your season of singleness!

You want to want to be spiritually & mentally prepared to start dating again so…

you Work on yourself to stay “happy” in your singleness...

BUT becoming self-aware won’t give you any clues about love and how to prepare yourself for future love to enter your life. So you…

Consider creating multiple dating profiles on Christian dating sites to take action...

BUT it can be hard to see RESULTS and frustrating when you can’t really tell if guys you meet are what you’re looking for. So you…

start focusing instead on your faith by joining small groups, praying, etc...

BUT none of those avenues are directly helping you feel less stuck in your singleness and more content with your season!

Let me show you that it’s possible


My books have pointed women in the direction of working on their faith FIRST (verses modern dating tactics!) and it has lead to changed hearts, mindsets, AND relationship outcomes…

But I knew there was more that I had to offer… 

And I knew that there were more women out there who needed it!!!

Not to mention my weekly devotionals, coaching services, and everything else I do!

No matter what, I always redirect your love life back to God! And God shows up!!

I’ll be honest with you

Getting to this point wasn’t easy

Hey, I’m Selina!

Like you, I was struggling to find peace and contentment in my singleness…

When I ended a long-term relationship in college, I really struggled to date again and find someone who was worth dating and loving. Even when I was “holding it down” for a man and proving my worth as a wifey-type woman, the relationship tips I was using didn’t feel right…

Once my last long-term relationship ended (aka, he dumped me!) I decided to trust God with my love life. I prayed, “I trust You!” and decided to give God the wheel.

Even then, I still felt stuck.

I felt like no matter how much I was working on me and doing all of the things I thought I was supposed to do that I would never find a way out of my singleness. I felt lost, confused, and honestly a bit upset with God…

but then…

I started dating again believing that my faith was strong enough to honor God while getting a move on from my last breakup. My gut told me not to do it but I still felt like time was slipping away and that I should listen to the biological time clock that was slowing ticking inside of me.

my heart broke again!

I continued to attract guys who were not about that God-honoring love life. 

Spending a lot of time alone as a single woman seemed like the only way to allow God to lead and take the reigns on finding love. Not doable as a single Christian who desperately wanted to stop wandering in the wilderness and move into the Promised Land of love and companionship.😭

So I tried…


Hiring a Life Coach to help me sort out my inner issues (but man, that was a lot of money to become self-aware and still remain single and completely clueless about love!)


Going out and connecting with multiple guys who could fit my expectations (but all of them were playing the "Christian" role and none of them were serious about honoring God.)


Staying home alone and praying that God would figure it out for me (and that actually worked but it was a "hit or miss" experience since I had no idea how to truly connect with God!)

I told myself:

There must be an easier way to do this and make this work, even if the relationship I had to focus on first is with God and not with a man!

And that’s when it hit me!

Living single by faith would

be the very best way to tackle this!

And this time, I finally started to see the results I’d been working for so hard:


Focusing on strengthening my prayer life gained me confidence to know when and how to move about in my love life saving my heart from future breakups with duds.


Understanding my relationship with God taught me the concepts of love, relationships, and how to build the ideal relationship with my future husband.


Working on my attitude towards God's timing shifted my mindset to trust more on God's plan and rely less on my own.


Creating a deeper connection with God gave me spiritual abilities that helped me discern dates, men, and ultimately move forward with the right relationship without wasting my time.


Cultivating a life where I could see God's blessings helped me to see my singleness as a blessing and not a curse!


Building my trust in God's plan lead me straight to marriage within two years of finding my husband and helped us plan a completely effortless wedding!

The best thing?

I am now happily married, have a family, and am flowing in the plans that God has set out for me with a strong, healthy mindset and the faith to back it up!

Learning how to be single by faith requires deep heart, mind and spiritual transformation which can lead you to God’s best within one season!

So how does it work exactly?

All it takes are

3 Simple Steps

To set your mind, faith, and attitude right in order for you to live Single By Faith


Shift your existing mindset from negative thoughts & limiting beliefs to uplifting, faith-filling truths.


Reset your heart’s motives from your personal plans and develop a heart of surrender to focus on God’s plans.


Actively embrace your singleness under the full trust and appreciation of God & His plans for your love life.

Welcome to…

the single by faith discipleship

A monthly membership for single Christian women to strengthen their mindset and faith in order to pursue God’s plans and purpose within their single season.

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on the inside

What you’ll learn

Phase 1


As you begin to set your foundation to live Single By Faith, you’ll dive into your current thought and belief patterns. 
You’ll learn how to shift your existing mindset from negative thoughts & limiting beliefs to uplifting, faith-filling truths.



Confronting Fears & Doubts

… so that you can expose what’s hidden to God’s light and remove them from your faith.


Overcoming Limiting Beliefs within Your Single Season

… using your current moods and learning how to shift them in a way that strengthens your faith and no longer replaces it.

Phase 2


Reset your heart’s motives from your personal plans and develop a heart of surrender to focus on God’s plans.

By shifting the weight of desire from what you want for yourself to what God wants for you, you’ll be able to gain contentment and peace being the place God has you.



Trusting God's Timing

… using reminders of your existing faith to breathe life into a stronger faith that will be at peace with the pacing of God’s timeline within your single season.


Surrendering ALL Control to God

… using your own words and faith to develop guided prayers that can and will be used to connect with God on a deeper level.

Phase 3


Actively embrace your singleness under the full trust and appreciation of God & His plans for your love life.

By resetting the way you carry out your single season, you’ll (finally!) be in a position to live “Single By Faith” by using your existing faith to prepare for future love!



Cultiviating A Life of Gratitude

… so that you can experience the goodness and blessings of God on a daily basis!


Moving Forward & Living Single By Faith

… using commitments that you make with yourself and with God to live in alignment with God’s purpose and plans over you and your love life.

Get instant access to

All of these resources

Plus these bonuses!


private disciple’s group on fb!


Connecting with other like-minded single women going through similar stages in their singleness!


Share testimonies, questions, or prayer requests in a supported community!


Gain accountability from others as you develop a stronger faith and mindset!


Receive motivation from a Christian Relationship Coach other women who desire the same love life outcomes as you!


live support & ongoing learning


Live Prayer Hour each month to help you develop a consistent prayer life that is intentional and spirit-driven!


Monthly Masterclass replay with additional lessons to strengthen your single season from expert teachers!


24-Hour written support in a safe space to ask questions and share your single concerns!


I already bought so many things that didn’t help me and why do I need the single by faith descipleship?


This cost less than a couple cups of coffee at Starbucks but other than the coffee, this has the potential to change your whole life bringing your faith and love life from frustration and mindless wandering to confidence and purpose-driven. Disciples are called to do life together… you need a community of other faith-driven single women to help you set your gaze and feet firmly in God and all that He has for you in THIS season!


6 On-demand video trainings = $150


Negative Self-Talk Worksheet = $12


Stuck to Empowered Worksheet = $12


God's Timing Checklist = $7


Create Your Own Guided Prayer Handout = $17


Growth Gratitude Journal = $17


Self-Contract Worksheet = $7


BONUS #1: Relationship Rundown Between You & God Worksheet = $12


BONUS #2: Monthly Focus Journal = $27


BONUS #3: Vision Board for Single Season (Using Canva!) Template & Mini-Lesson = $27


BONUS #4: The Single By Faith 6-Week Devotional = $27


Monthly Prayer Hour Session = $97

Total Value = $412

Today’s Price = Only $7

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This Membership is for

2 Types of single christian women

Newly Single

You just became single due to a recent breakup or divorce and you are in no mental and emotional position to get back to dating. This discipleship will help you heal and recover from the fears, doubts, and limiting beliefs of any past pains and will allow you to develop the faith and focus you need to practically live Single By Faith.

Faith Needs To Be Strengthened

Whether you are new in your faith or you haven’t intentionally focused on your faith enough. This discipleship will introduce you to faith steps that will develop your personal relationship with God without overwhelming you or prompting you to take too much action too soon before you are spiritually ready.

Total Value = $412

Today’s Price = Only $7

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Frequently asked questions

Q: I am a new Christian and I’m just getting started. Will this still work for me?

A: Yes, this can work for you. This will certainly help you strengthen your faith as you learn how to look for love.

Q: Can I wait and join later?

A: Yes you can! This offer will always be available so pray about it and join us when you see it’s a good fit. 

Q: How much support is included?

A: There is 24h written support included (Mon-Fri) which means that you will get all your questions answered within our members-only support group within 1-2 business days. (Weekends and holidays will be observed and all questions will be addressed upon return.)

Q: Can I cancel the membership?

A: Yes, you can cancel this membership any time.

Q: When will I get access?

A: You will receive an email with all the details immediately after your purchase and will get access to our Disciple’s FB group within 24 hours.

Q: What’s the difference between the Single By Faith Discipleship and the Single By Faith Society?

A: The Single By Faith Discipleship is a self-paced approach to work on your faith and mindset with minimal hands-on interaction. The Single By Faith Society is a self-paced approach that provides group coaching, practical implementation, and a maximum hands-on experience!

Q: Does this only work for Christians?

A: Due to the teachings, nature, and beliefs of this model setup, this Society will only work for Christian women who believe in God as a triune God (Father, Son, Holy Spirit).

Furthermore, the teachings provided in this Society are taught in a non-denominational format, pointing all faiths and practices toward a non-legalistic and spiritually-driven path toward finding love and excelling in relationships.

Q: I am not tech-savvy. Do I need a bunch of tools to make this work?

A: No, this is very beginner and budget-friendly and you don’t need to be good with tech or buy any software. You will, however, need to have access to Facebook in order to gain the full community experience!

Q: I don’t have my prayer life and Bible-study skills altogether yet. Is that a problem?

A: Nope. This society to going to empower you to develop a lifestyle where those things become strong, exciting, and a part of your natural lifestyle. Plus, all of the teachings will be broken down for all Christians at all levels can understand and apply them!

Q: Can I join this membership and then move to the next membership at a later date?

A: Absolutely! The plan and goal is to use the Discipleship to prepare you to join the Single By Faith Society in the future! Once you join the Society, you will still have access to everything from the Discipleship membership!

Money Back Guarantee

Q: Is there a money-back guarantee?

A: I’m so convinced that you will love the Single By Faith Discipleship and the relationship you start building with yourself and God right from day one that I am backing this with a 7-day no-questions-asked money-back guarantee!

Hop in the group, check it out for seven days and if it doesn’t feel like a right fit for you, simply email SUPPORT at: and I will refund your money. After seven days, you can cancel at any time.

This is a monthly membership and you can also cancel at any time. Your membership will end at the end of its billing period.




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